Individuals with autism spectrum disorders (ASD)
demonstrate the same needs for relationships as most of us do. Unfortunately, a
deficit in social skills can make relationship building a challenge for the
individual with ASD. Social skills training does not often target the skills required
for adult relationships. These topics may get placed on the back burner, and/or
are not addressed at all. There exists a hidden curriculum within adult
relationships, and one such topic includes sex education.
Individuals with ASD experience the same bodily changes as their typically
developing peers. The topic of sex
education is an uncomfortable topic for many families, but one that requires
attention. Individuals with ASD usually require instruction and support in
order to develop appropriate sexual behavior. We are currently faced with a
lack of research concerning sex education within the ASD population.
The following is a two part blog written by Dr.
Peter F. Gerhardt, Ph. D. for the Sage Colleges Achieve Ideas. Dr. Gerhardt discusses the definition of
sexuality, its history, as well as guidelines and considerations for the
instruction of sexuality. Dr. Gerhardt is a leading expert in the field of autism
and issues such as sex education.
By
Dr. Peter F. Gerhardt, Ph. D.
Sexuality education for students with
autism spectrum disorders, Part I
Although generally
difficult to talk about in an open and honest manner, sex and sexuality are
central to understanding ourselves. Comprehensive sexuality instruction focuses
primarily on who the individual is as a sexual being and what that may mean in
his or her life. Sexuality education involves instruction beyond just basic
facts and knowledge and includes issues such as personal safety, individual values,
gender-role identification, physical maturation and an understanding of the
complex social dimension of sexuality and sexual behavior. Therefore, sexuality
education should be considered an integral element of education for learners
with an autism spectrum disorder (ASD), assuming that the goal is for them to
be a safe, competent and confident adults.
Definition of sexuality
Human sexuality presents
us with very complex subject. As defined by the World Health Organization
(2004), sexuality is:
a central aspect of being human throughout life and encompasses
sex, gender identities and roles, sexual orientation, eroticism, pleasure,
intimacy and reproduction. Sexuality is experienced and expressed in thoughts,
fantasies, desires, beliefs, attitudes, values, behavior, practices, roles and
relationships. Sexuality is influenced by the interaction of biological,
psychological, social, economic, political, cultural, ethical, legal,
historical, religious and spiritual factors. (p. 2)
Similarly complex is the
process of sexual development, which has been described as a “multidimensional
process intimately liked to the basic human needs of being liked and accepted,
displaying and receiving affection, feeling valued and attractive and sharing
thoughts and feelings” (Murphy & Elias, 2006, p. 398). What both of these
definitions boils down to is that sexuality is simply part of being human.
Avoidance of any discussion of sexuality and/or sexuality instruction as it
pertains to learners with ASD constitutes, in effect, a tacit denial of their
humanity which, I think we all agree, is unacceptable.
History
For much of our history
the very concept of individuals with any disability label being viewed as
sexual beings was, by and large, anathema to the thinking of the time. Up until
fairly recently, the predominant method of addressing sexuality in learners
with developmental disabilities was denial and suppression (Watson, Venema,
Molloy & Reich, 2002). Not surprisingly, neither approach was effective.
Learners with ASD are, by definition, sexual beings, and to deny them that
status is to deny them appropriate access to a critical part of their life,
their status as an adult and their ability to be safe from harm.
Components of sexuality education
Sexuality education
actually starts very early in life (differences between boys and girls; using
the boys room or girls room, etc.) and continues well into adulthood (dating,
marriage and parenting). Comprehensive sexuality education consists of
instruction in three distinct (yet interrelated) content areas:
1) Basic facts/accurate
information
2) Individual values and
3) Social relationships.
Effective sexuality
education for learners with ASD can be complicated by the
language/communication problems and social deficits associated with the
disorder. And while sexual feelings and interest may be high, a primary
information source available to neurotypical teens, (i.e., other teens), is
often not available to learners on the spectrum (Volkmar & Wiesner, 2003).
This often results in a situation where information is not taught in school,
not addressed by family and not provided by friends resulting in little, if
any, appropriate skill development. But make no mistake: teens will encounter
information about sex as part of daily life, whether it’s from the media,
overhearing locker room talk, watching the physical actions of couples at
school or in the community or being the subject of insensitive,
sexually-oriented teasing by others.
In light of the social
challenges experienced by even the brightest learner with ASD, direct training
and education about sexual issues needs to be provided, commensurate with each
individual’s receptive and expressive abilities. This direct social skills
instruction should be two-pronged: on one hand discussing the complexities of
relationship building and on the other hand more concrete discrimination
training as to who can, and who cannot, help in the bathroom, with menstrual
care, at the doctor’s office, etc.
References
Murphy, N.A. &
Elias, E.R. (2006). Sexuality of children and adolescents with
developmental disabilities. Pediatrics, 118 (1), 398-403.
Volkmar, F.R. & Wiesner, L.A. (2003). Healthcare for children
on the autism spectrum: A guide to medical, nutritional and behavioral issues. Bethesda, MD: Woodbine House.
Watson, S., Venema, T., Molloy, W. & Reich, M. (2002). Sexual
rights and individuals who have a developmental disability. In D. Griffiths, D.
Richards, P. Fedoroff & S. Watson (Eds.). Ethical Dilemmas: Sexuality and Developmental
Disability. Kingston, NY: NADD
Press.
Sexuality education for students with
autism spectrum disorders, Part II
In general, there are
three basic goals for sexuality instruction – sharing basic facts/accurate
information; developing individual values and teaching appropriate social
relationship skills – and these should form the structure of any program for
learners with autism spectrum disorders (ASD). Age and functioning level will
affect how information is shared, but adults should use care not to restrict
education because of their own preconceived notions about what these learners
‘need’ or ‘want.’ Other guidelines include:
·
Think ahead and be
proactive. Waiting until something inappropriate happens is not an option. For
example, training in appropriate menstrual care should start prior to onset of
a young woman’s first period if it is to be most effective (and potentially,
less challenging).
·
Start when children are
young. Don’t make the mistake of waiting until the individual expresses
interest in sex for education to begin. Teaching children about personal safety
issues such as good touch/bad touch, consent and personal boundaries should start
at an early age.
·
Be concrete and factual
in presenting information, but also calm and supportive in all your
interactions. References to the “birds and bees” as an introduction to sex or
comparisons of the vulva to “petals on a flower” will, in all likelihood, be
misunderstood. Much of the information is factual, based on biology. Use
visuals whenever possible.
·
Break larger areas of
information into smaller, more manageable blocks (task analyze). For some
individuals discussing the biological underpinnings of pregnancy may be quite
appropriate while for another a more simplistic explanation may be sufficient.
·
Always remember that
sexual behavior is social behavior and, therefore, the social dimension of
sexuality needs to be addressed when and wherever appropriate. “Hidden rules”
regarding sexual behavior are pervasive. Masturbation, not often thought of as
having a social component, does indeed, and it includes such social rules as 1)
don’t masturbate in front of others, 2) your bedroom is the appropriate place
for masturbation and 3) close the door to your bedroom if you want to
masturbate, etc.
·
Keep in mind that
sexuality education needs to be consistent, and the skills learned may need to
be monitored to make certain they are retained. Once a young woman learns who
can/cannot help her with menstrual care, the hope is that this skill is rarely
practiced in real life. It may have to be revisited at different times across
her life to assure maintenance of these very important skills.
Sexuality education with learners with ASD is often regarded as a
“problem because it is not an issue, or is an issue because it is seen as a
problem” (Koller, 2000, p. 126). In practice this means we generally ignore
sexuality as it pertains to learners with ASD until it becomes a problem, at
which point we generally regard it as big problem. A more appropriate and,
ideally, more effective approach is to address sexuality as just another,
albeit complex, instructional focus, the teaching of which allows learners to
be safer, more independent and more integrated into their own communities,
resulting in a more positive quality of life. As noted by Koller (2000), the
question no longer can be if sexuality education should be
provided, but rather how it will be offered.
References
Koller, R., (2000).
Sexuality and adolescents with autism. Sexuality and Disability, 18, (125-135).
Sobsey, D. (1994). Violence and Abuse in the Lives of
Persons with Disabilities: The End of Silent Acceptance? Baltimore:
Paul H. Brookes Publishing.
Posted by Rocio E. Chavez, MA, MSEd, BCBA