Parents can learn to increase independence, language and communication and compliance with some simple yet tried and true strategies. The goal is to reinforce and thereby increase the frequency of appropriate behavior. Following appropriate behavior delivering reinforcement - something the child likes, like praise tickles or a tangible item - will increase that behavior in the future. Often times and unintentionally, parents and caregivers inadvertently reinforce behaviors they do not want to increase to get their child to stop exhibiting a behavior. For example, to get a child to stop screaming for their toy, a parent might give the child the toy, and the child stops screaming. Although the behavior stopped in the moment, it will most likely be strengthened in the future. The child will learn screaming long enough and loud enough gets him the toy. Some of the strategies we teach the parents we work with are below:
1. Deliver reinforcement contingent on appropriate behavior:
• Compliance to instructions.
• Whenever you make a request that is followed through on, or ask a question that is answered independently and appropriately, reinforcement should be delivered.
• Appropriate behavior
• Provide reinforcement contingent on responses such as eye contact, appropriate sitting, appropriate and independent play, independent communication, independent walking, etc.
2. Behavior-specific praise: Label your praise to let your child know what is being reinforced.
3. Deliver reinforcement immediately: Don’t wait to give reinforcement or else another response may be reinforced.
4. Make praise discriminable: Say it differently from instructions.
5. Don’t repeat instructions. How you state an instruction may influence whether it is followed or not. If a child is paying attention, hears the instruction, and it is within his/her abilities, he/she is more likely to comply. Prior to giving an instruction, make sure you have the child's attention and you have potential reinforcers available. Instructions should be clear, concise, phrased as a statement, and given only once. If the instruction contains too many words, the child may not attend to the key words. Here is an example of a poor instruction, "Evelyn, can you stop running around and sit down over here so that Mommy can put your shoes on?" In contrast, a good instruction would be, "Evelyn, sit down."
6. Follow behavior you want with reinforcement. Do not follow inappropriate behavior with reinforcement or it will increase.
7. Some children need extra help to perform a desired skill or behavior so that you can reinforce it. Prompting is an instructional technique that helps the student to make the correct response. There are several types of prompts such as: Verbal, Physical Modeling, Gestural and Pictorial cues.
These are some of the strategies that can be used to increase more of the behaviors you want. For more information you can contact Anne Denning at adenning@qsac.com